no job, no car , no teeth, GET LOST

this is not really funny but i have a friend, she is 4o years old a hard worker has always worked and i got a call from her yesterday she met a man who she thought was sweet and wonderful he even cooked dinner for her so she has to move from her apartment he says come stay with me i will add you to the lease we will split the bills and that will be better on both of us. so she has no where eles to go since you need several hundred to move into a decent apartment and her recent divorce left her with no home and only a little for car repairs etc if needed. thinking well at least i will have help paying bills not like the exhusband who stopped working. well the nightmare begins one month later the new guy loses job, then find out he owes 50,000 in back child support never mentioned children who hes not allowed to see because he has a criminal record and mental health record a mile long, RULE ALWAYS CHECK SOMEONE OUT BEFORE YOU START GETTING INVOLVED. i asked my friend how could you not do this she said i was so hurt and lonely after my divorce her ex left her for someone eles, that this new man was so wonderful and showed me attention. no 5 months later he still has no job, also find out hes on probation and has to pay that. i know shes helping him out with all this big mistake he will leave as soon as he gets what he can or he will continue to do nothing. remember sex does not mean anything unless its for love its just an act that anyone can do. he obviously has no love for anyone not even him self. well going through life myself it took a long time to realize love does not pay the bills and we all need some kind of security. so here are some rules i now have if i ever meet someone again i will definetly weed them out by these ill probally be alone but oh well
#1 always do background check
#2 make sure he has had a steady work history and has a good job
#3 must have valid job and license, had this problem twice real men have cars and licenses
#4 doesnt have childsupport or hopefully no kids or has older kids on there own
#5 check teeth out , bad teeth could be bad hygene habits